Sunday, January 20, 2008
了解比爱难多了。
这句话应该是说着
爱和了解是两回事吧。Understanding is much
difficult than loving.
This should be saying that
understand and love are
two different thing.
我们可以很爱恨爱一个人。
但是却不了解他们为什么
做了某些事。因此，
我们受伤、难过，
最后离开了。
We can love someone very very much.
But dont understand them at all.
Dont know why they did some
things they did. Hence, we get
hurted; sad, and eventually left.
相同的，我们也可以
很了解很了解一个人。
知道他们是抱着怎样的心情、
为了什么，而做了什么事。
但是我们却不会和那个人在一起。
就是因为太了解了。
Also, we can understand someone alot.
Knowing what they were thinking,
how they were feeling when they did
whatever things. But we cant love
them as they are. Just because
we understand too much.那一天，我和笨笨一起看完电影后，
不想回家；也不想到他家。
即使在外游荡也没关系。
但是他似乎因为担心而生气了。
我想我了解他当时的感受。
但是我无法体会。
That day, after BenBen and I
finished that movie, I didnt
wanna go home. Neither did I
wanna go to his. Even if it means
loitering outside. But he got
worried and angry. I guess I
understood how he felt at that time.
But I just cant feel it.
他问我话，我都有回答啊。
但是他却觉得我是在气他。
那我不说话，他又不高兴。
最后我只好到一个不碍眼的地方。
I answered whatever he asked.
Yet he felt irritated.
By not saying anything,
he was still unhappy.
In the end, I went to a place
where I will not be disturbing.
我也不知道他之后怎么了。
也不想知道。因为他也很会耍脾气。
他也很会自以为是。
我也很会钻牛角尖。
但是我们都不谈，
不说，然后就没事了。
I didnt know what happened
after that. Dont wanna know
either. Because he can be
really bad at his temper
at times. Same goes to me.
He can be so self centered.
But we never talked about it.
It'll just be fine the next day.
是默契吗？
